i’m not going to be afraid of offending or hurting because it is going to drive me nuts if i have to deal with it over and over again and it doesn’t seem to have any outcome. So if the soft approach don’t work, i will let you have a taste of my fist. :)

做人要忍，当忍无可忍的时候，动手要快要恨。

so indeed it is true for all situations. there is a threshold mark and once you hit it and it reaches dangerous warning point, i think i will really show no mercy on you and give you a piece of my mind. normally, there are very very very, so few people who will reach that stage. so far, i dont think there is anyone, but there are some people are just at the RED warning zone. (tell yourself, “it is not me”… bcos if it is you, you wouldn’t even know i have this blog.) haha*

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crappy!

GUY FRIENDS vs FEMALE FRIENDS

which do you have more?

What will you do if you are stuck in a traffic jam?
(A) honk continuously till the traffic ahead starts moving
(B) keep switching lanes as much as possible to get ahead
(C) follow the traffic flow and wait for traffic ahead to clear
(D) get out of the car and hop on to a cab on the opposite side of the road

Funny, but which will you choose?

SMS your space space to 9XXXXXX4.

Winners will be notified via SMS.

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:) haha*

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- above meaning for ‘Patience’ is cited from dictionary.com, #1-#3 only.

The word ‘Patience’ has been hovering in my head for the past whole week, so much that even Pst Phil talks about it during the short sharing on Sat @Expo. Indeed, Patience is like what Pst Phil share, the ability to wait with a great attitude under immerse pressure.

There are many things in life we plan to do, want to do, have to do and ought to do. Some are urgent, some are important, others are not so important and the rest are not important. Prioritise them, so that you won’t be caught with a short fuse, blowing up easily.
[Note: some things can be easily achievable win a short period of time while some may take longer time to happen, so all in all - Patience!]

I figured that having Patience will help me with both things:
1. To take a step back to look at the same situation with a different perspective, so that I can or might need to take a different approach to it.
2. To decide if what I’m going for is all worth it to continue the waiting.

“… and the violent shall take it by force.”
ya, right. True to a certain extend BUT not suitable for every situation. Not everything in life is about being violent and to take it by force or is it all rush, rush, rushing to get it done and over in the shortest period of time. Ask yourself, Why are you pressing hard on time? The hardest thing to rush, are especially the things of the heart.

Our mind spins fast and we think fast. The good and the bad, positive and negative stuff floods our mind like a wave and often we caught ourselves being temperamental over the issues our heart has no control over. That’s bcos our heart is SLOW. Like Pst always say, “When we worship God, we ought to wait on the Lord”. As true as what is said in the spiritual, it is the same for the natural… WAIT.

Wait for the heart to ‘download’ what the mind is thinking. Allow the heart to connect emotions and feelings into the situation. After which, allow some MORE time for a message to send back to the mind to register, so that an action can be cash out. This process with what I call, PATIENCE, bcos you won’t know how long it will take. Just like setting up system a program, if somewhere something goes wrong, you got to restart and try over again.

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["Love is not a matter of counting the years, but making the years count" - Michelle Amand]
With that… I came up with my own, it is not a matter of the waiting but making the waiting count.

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Watched Prince of Persia today. At first, I didn’t really expected a lot from it as I didn’t had the though of catching the movie and was clueless about the show. But ended up enjoying it. Thanks to joshua for planning this special “outing” that ended up us talking more than the “two main characters”. But this is a good try out, so hopefully if there are other more times, something good can work out of it. What say you, sam? Haha*

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haha* so interestingly, i received another pretty present this week. Elza popped by and passed me a necklace with a big musical note pendent. it has the RoCkEr style look and i hug* it. she sang me a song as she presented the gift to me but i couldn’t catch the tune, as it was some china song (haha*) and i told her, the only song that came up to my mind was, “你是我心中的一首歌…” and we both laugh!

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went visiting today… wonder where did all the children went. they were either not home or out somewhere… i miss having school holidays so that i can laze around the house doing nothing and enjoy life. :) i miss my students and i feel happy when they are excited to see me when i visit them, cos only then i know they love me too. haha* i like people to tell me that they like me. HAHA.

met up for dinner with peixiong. surprised that he called me up for dinner. but i am glad he did cos there’s so much to catch up on and i miss talking to him, while his gf is still not back… haha* my 19 years of friend, so thankful for the friendship that is still standing strong. :) God is really good to me. :)

If there is one day of your life that you can want to go back to, which day will you choose?

Often when you start to think like that is cos you’re getting tired with the daily routine. Our lives is actually a routine, isn’t it? Think about it… after trying very hard to get out of bed (ahem*), you wash up, choose your clothes, put on make up, grab a drink and get off to work/school. Then get to school/work… wait for lunch/break time… work some more… work ends and then head off for home or wherever you need to go. So as you can see, from morning till evening, the schedule is pretty much fixed.

Love your life at this moment?

Don’t regret only when you lose it, live without regrets and make the best out of everything. :)

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haha*

what shall i reward you with?
- help you pull the red strings that bennie is helping to connect?
- a gift, a present, a box of surprise?
- a privilege to continue this great ‘task’ ?

thank  you so so much! :)

you are the BEST.

when i think of what happened today in the morning, about hanging up on you a few times, telling you that’s no school and asking who are you and all…. makes me want to laugh. someday when we watch this VCR in heaven again, lets have a good laugh about it again. hahaha*

to samuel, i am ever every sooooo grateful to you. :)

My bible says,

Those that are FOR us are more than those that are against us.

i am so thankful for my spiritual family, City Harvest Church. This is the place where i grew up in and this is where i will grow old in with my future family and grandchildren and great grand children… till the day the Lord returns. i am ever so thankful to God that i am place in this place where i get to feel His strong presence every week, able to seek Him freely, to experience His love for me and to love Him over and over again.

i really believe that if it is not for God’s work in my life, i will never be where i am today, living my life as such. if it is not for Pastor Kong and the leadership guidance and patience to mold me, my life will never be the same ever again…

i am ever so thankful to Pastor Kong and Sun for always setting a good example for all of us, to model after. with a leadership that always encourages us to do good and to bless the people in the community… i wonder what’s more to say.

at the end of the day, after hearing from some non-chc members talk about my church, i am so glad to know that people out there actually are WITH us and they LIKE us. :)

i believe the devil is running out of tricks… Please go back and watch over your little demons and leave us alone! :( SHOOOOO!

haha* point your finger at the devil and laugh at him for being such a loser! *shakes head*